Troubled Relationship Issues
Faced Head-on can
Eliminate Common Marital Problems
Most relationship issues
are simply problems steaming from
whether husband-wife, boyfriend-girlfriend, sister-brother, mother-daughter,
… require some form of improved communication.
Levels of Fulfillment
The level of communication directly affects the level of
fulfillment in the relationship.
don’t mean screaming, hollering, or nagging.
I mean communication in a clean manner so you can address any relationship problems
The worse thing that you can do is NOT
address a situation before it become detrimental to your relationship.
That doesn’t mean harp on every little thing
but most of us have a set of annoyances that can make or break a
Instead of talking them through in order to avoid
relationship problems we sweep them under the rug.
A lot of people even have a list of topics
that they dread discussing because they already know how the conversation will
What most people in troubled relationship don’t realize is
you can LEARN how to strategically eliminate relationship troubles
and common couple’s
problems between you and your partner.
Learning to Listen
Troubled relationship arguing, escalating and putting down
your mate are unfortunately the norm for most couple in today’s society.
problems, including marital problems can be rectified if each person not just
listen but hear what their mate is saying. The coaching moment below will help you with this.
A Coaching Moment:
(This Relationship Coaching Moment Brought to you by Tiffany Norris)
Try the following strategies when trying to stop troubled
relationship issues from ruining your relationship.
Some couples have a hard time with this new
technique. It is especially difficult to
get use to in the beginning. If you are
having difficulties contact one of the coaches on our site for help
implementing this strategy.
- Allow your partner to talk
about your couples problems from their prospective. Your only job is to listen.
- When your partner finishes
sharing their view of the troubled relationship repeat back to him or her
what you heard them say. Do not respond
to what your partner said. Just
paraphrase what you heard them say was their marital problem concern.
- Ask for clarity if you
missed anything or if the speaker feels you missed his or her point. This is not the time for relationship
arguing. You are trying to grow so
you must be mature and open to hearing these hard truths.
- Take turns being the
speaker and the listener.
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