Surviving Long Distance Relationships
by Tiffany Norris
(Chicago, IL, USA)
Another Lonely Sunset
Long distance relationships can be hard and stressful. Nevertheless, they are worth it if you have truly found your soul mate. The length of you separation will be less of an issue if both partners are serious about preserving the relationship.
Love of course is an important ingredient to making any relationship work and so is trust. When you are in a long distance relationship, it is very important that you trust your partner. Invariably you will experience loneliness and separation anxiety. During these times you must continuously check your self-talk and make sure you are in the positive zone more often than not.
Remote relationships are not only common in today’s society by they are almost the norm. The internet has made long distance relationships quite common by uniting people from all over the world.
Distant relationships are even harder for couples who must separate after being geographically close. Couples who are committed to making it work know that the challenges posed by distance can become strengths in the relationship.
Life Coaching Moment:
1. Talk about your expectations upfront. How often would you like to talk to your partner? Is it ok for your mate to hang out with members of the opposite sex? When will you see one another?
2. Most cell phone providers have free “in-network” calls. If possible, use the same cell phone provider.
3. Be on the look out for cheap getaways near your mate’s new location.
